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Respect

How can someone respect you if you don’t respect yourself? so many people today are letting others dictate their lives just because of this one word. I have two names for those dictators, users and abusers. They try to make the person feel small and fragile just so they can have complete control over the other. I see this everywhere I turn, but mostly in the younger generation.  If you let yourself be controlled by someone who says they respect you, you need to look up the definition of respect. It kills me when I hear about young girls who are in relationships with people who do not really respect them. They don’t really know what respect looks like, so how could they possibly learn to respect themselves? It’s so saddening because these people are the future leaders of our society.

I believe that they should have a course in public schools that teaches these kids to learn self respect. Not just the girls though, everyone. Respect is one of those things in life that has to be earned and self respect is no different. You have to prove it to yourself that you deserve the respect that you are giving yourself, which if you ask me is the hardest part. Until then no one in your life can truly respect you the way you deserve. You have to believe that it all starts from within and then you can learn to start loving yourself. The result is truly magical.

Claiming Time With Friends

So there’s this girl I’m friends with and she and I always do brunch on Sundays. One of my other good girl friend, who she is not that close with asked if she could join us on our weekly brunch. Like a good friend I told her of course she could come, but the first girl got really mad at me. She always is trying to claim the time we spend together as “her” time and it’s not. It’s so dramatic, She can’t get mad at me because I’m a social butterfly. I feel like all my friends are pulling away from me because she is so smothering of me. She’s not my only friend, but if she doesn’t stop soon she will be. It’s so ridiculous and I’ve tried talking to her about it and she denies everything. It’s drama and I’m 22…..there shouldn’t be this much drama at my age.

Claiming Time With Friends

So there’s this girl I’m friends with and she and I always do brunch on Sundays. One of my other good girl friend, who she is not that close with asked if she could join us on our weekly brunch. Like a good friend I told her of course she could come, but the first girl got really mad at me. She always is trying to claim the time we spend together as “her” time and it’s not. It’s so dramatic, She can’t get mad at me because I’m a social butterfly. I feel like all my friends are pulling away from me because she is so smothering of me. She’s not my only friend, but if she doesn’t stop soon she will be. It’s so ridiculous and I’ve tried talking to her about it and she denies everything. It’s drama and I’m 22…..there shouldn’t be this much drama at my age.

Looking Back

I love looking back at old photos and remembering the childhood I had. I used to say that I was such a weird little kid, but the truth is that I was adorable and always laughing and smiling. I was going through a box at my dad’s house that had a lot of old photos of us and we were laughing for hours. I came across photos of him as a kid and I couldn’t get over how adorable he was. We were looking at his kindergarten photo, a team photo from when he played baseball and a lot of baby pictures. I also saw a beautiful photo of my grandmother. I never realized how gorgeous she was before. The best part about pictures is that we will have those moments saved forever. Something else my dad and I thought was funny was that all the pictures we were in were close ups. He doesn’t have many of them with my sister, but like every picture of us is like that. Anyways we had a great time going through them and I just thought I’d share!

Looking Back

I love looking back at old photos and remembering the childhood I had. I used to say that I was such a weird little kid, but the truth is that I was adorable and always laughing and smiling. I was going through a box at my dad’s house that had a lot of old photos of us and we were laughing for hours. I came across photos of him as a kid and I couldn’t get over how adorable he was. We were looking at his kindergarten photo, a team photo from when he played baseball and a lot of baby pictures. I also saw a beautiful photo of my grandmother. I never realized how gorgeous she was before. The best part about pictures is that we will have those moments saved forever. Something else my dad and I thought was funny was that all the pictures we were in were close ups. He doesn’t have many of them with my sister, but like every picture of us is like that. Anyways we had a great time going through them and I just thought I’d share!

Looking Back

I love looking back at old photos and remembering the childhood I had. I used to say that I was such a weird little kid, but the truth is that I was adorable and always laughing and smiling. I was going through a box at my dad’s house that had a lot of old photos of us and we were laughing for hours. I came across photos of him as a kid and I couldn’t get over how adorable he was. We were looking at his kindergarten photo, a team photo from when he played baseball and a lot of baby pictures. I also saw a beautiful photo of my grandmother. I never realized how gorgeous she was before. The best part about pictures is that we will have those moments saved forever. Something else my dad and I thought was funny was that all the pictures we were in were close ups. He doesn’t have many of them with my sister, but like every picture of us is like that. Anyways we had a great time going through them and I just thought I’d share!

Mobbed

So I’m watching this new show called mobbed and I think it’s really cool. I love flashmobs and I think to do it with a purpose is even more amazing. I’m watching the one where they are trying to unite father and son and where they try to flip it. I don’t know how this is going to turn out, but I hope it’s great. It’s so spontaneous and crazy to do stuff like this and I wish I was brave enough to do it. It looks like so much fun! I think it would be a blast to be on this show, even if I was just in the flashmob. But it’s so crazy, and I love Howie Mandel for doing stuff like this. It’s so out there! If I was going to make a video to send in, I have no clue what it would be. I just love this show though, it’s amazing and you all should watch it!!!!